Husband make us Brunch.. Soya mee with left over ribs and veggie
Going to Public Library
Play some computer games
Read some books
Self Check out some books to take home.
Climb rocks before heading to Superstore for grocery..Came home, make dinner. Little boy whning after woke up for an hour nap...
Refuse to have dinner, Daddy offer to feed him, he wants his way...bra bra... Daddy very mad and warn him, if he don't cooperate, his toy will be in the garbage bag! (Train overselve not hitting him. I have bad experience about spanking him, now, I am trying to remember not to repeat it, but someday just drive us crazy... ok...Deep breath,, hold and breath...冷靜D!冷靜D!)
He ask for mummy( I stay away when husband lecturing him, or else we may have conflict), he keep saying he's sorry me whice he suppose to sorry to his dad.. For some reason, my son just scare to see me angry... but not his dad. 好！為有Rotan處理啦!( this moment mummy me thought of Auntie Marial blogs, talk about dealing with kids,,, Shiaulin commeted when they are driving you nuts, no negotiation, rotan the only way out...) 咁就用Rotan懲罰啦！but no rotan available in Canada, didn't have one, 咁就用手啦！
唉！ 嘟係冷靜D! 冷靜D! I came in and I have to back up hubby, (but it hurt to see him crying) I told him, "we all angry and on fire,, no point talking, we cannot hear each other", 火山要爆發. He kept saying sorry not so willingly 火上加油, I told him I want him to show me how he sorry, or else some toy will end up in the garbage bag.(start this method for sometimes now, he very sayang his toy, don't wanna to sacrify them.) He stop and cooperate with his dad on the dinner table. I went off and finished what I was doing, but still angry激氣又激心! 行開下冷靜吓!
In 10 minutes, I heard them singing and cheering... then they came in and told me he finished his meal, can he play and on and on,, Daddy all smilling, think his mission accomplished, 和氣生財！
You see, just not worth it! 為乜哩? Kids don't remember... don't understand the emotion that's involved.真激死冇佢符！嘟好彩冇放哂D氧气落去, 如果唔係咁、短幾年命都会架！..... so carry on my routine. What else, start blogging 囉!