29 May 2007

Getting into High Gear! 跨到四字頭

"40th is double the fun. Midlife crisis is far away!" Between Yesterday(Sunday) and Today(Monday), my age make huge different in Numbers. I was 39+ and Today I turned 40th. . } ( (like when you shop in store, if an item cost $39.99 and a same item cost $40.00 in a store, even one penny different, mentally you feel the $39.99 cost a big different in numbers/price, much less. that how I feel the night I turn 40th . I can't let go my $39.99.. woo waaaha! cry out loud!)
Forty...... I was a bit uncertain about this age, I can't believe it but sort of deny it, until my colleague's send her wishes to me and said, " in 40th you are only getting into High Gear! and many happy returns.."
Indeed, flashing back on my past 39 years, so far in every stage I LIVE !I've being there、 done it and I should still be looking forward for more adventure in life... ..oh accept..(should be rich and whealthy)
BTW, when to shop today and saw an art stone engraved with a sentence said: Growing OLD is Mandatory, Growing up is an options.?!?...I maybe get it..!? Oh well, 40th is double the Fun, no fear ...... just do it!
"It's a very short trip. WHILE ALIVE, L-I-V-E-! Malcolm Forbes" 一日差别、我的年龄就誇四字頭‧
依依不捨的三十歲字頭‧‧‧就這樣溜走......
這四十年來,每一個十年之路我也算活得好滿足‧
一至十歲屋企環境唔好,冇乜童年照片可回憶,不過惱海中也填滿好多同家姐哥哥的童年趣事‧
少 年時的我失去媽媽,心中有如刀割深傷,無媽媽的日子好難過‧總要過,媽媽在天上也唔想見到我們衰傷太久同浪費青春時间嘅!家人互相照顧,慢慢把悲傷放下,日子總算過了去‧
中學到高中的我十分好動,参加好多活 動,朋友甚多的,無憂無愁無知、不過也算過的十分充實。好彩D朋友同學係正經人家、未有媽媽身邊成長也未學壞!學生時期交的朋友永遠最真!

二 十歲出來工作,二姐帮我找到一份我鐘意做的工作,成功見成一份在 publisher 做 layout artist‧識朋友拍過puppy拖,對外界十份好奇多期望。不過這一段時期十分短暫,之後二+幾歲同家人移民加國,從新適應新地方新環境新事物‧踫過 釘衝過板也哭過,沒什么真朋友(但係年级大了‧有小猫三四個知己够哂数!)、但生活挑戰之餘也十分精釆、之後遇上真名天子,開始人生另一階段..除了學做 人太太‧又要懂得如何與夫家相处,好好彩,夫家的成圓也好相處尤其是老爺奶奶‧

三 十歲,因工作,婚後蜜月期加上自由自思想生活在而将生BB的事延遲‧婚後五年後先生了仔仔、人生又去到另一個堦段‧‧做媽媽的時 刻的感覺一言难盡,只係知道生仔的計劃迟了些 (如果再回頭選擇過會婚後一年有BB多個BB)、有BB家中也添了無盡生氣,雖然犧牲甚大但那種滿足有如喜從天降!有兒女萬事福、這種喜悦只有做人母親那 時就會明白了‧ (但現在仔仔唔激我時就very good 囉!哈哈!) 記得大姐曾經分享過,我們的生命好精釆‧雖然逝去光陰不回頭,但在自己每一個的十年之窗也發生不同的故事、不少人生經 歴+ 分珍貴,而我與大都份人一樣,每個階段能做到那個階段的人物事物‧這人生对我來說已好寫意!因為每一段也是我人生最佳時间‧

我 唔識盡用好的文字來表達心中的這些年來的順境逆境的喜怒哀樂,但你話人生是否能長長久久,可以順流至永遠呢?我唔知也不想去猜測,生命中的每個挫折、每個 喜怒傷痛、都有它的意義、我要記住人生無常生命無限好,只望日日是平安健全那就是好日,但願我未年幾十年活得更精采!仍然會努力去追求、不會強求、少D欲 求、來!為未來喝采!乾杯!

8 comments:

Anonymous said...

Wah...!!First time see your photo..leng wor..

Happy Birthday ah!

And yes, many life lesson can learn from May.

HAPPY HAPPY Birthday.
BIG GIRL LIAO WOR!

et

Mama BoK said...

Happy birthday.. my dear..!! and you look very young for 40 years old.. ;) i thought you were only in your late 20s.. ;) and that's the truth.. :)

May the Blogie-Talkie said...

Hahaha,, Thanks ET,, yeah,, Big old lady.. ai yar,, pictures looks good with my expert skills in Photoshop only,,, I blur my self mar, real me, will scare you orr..

Mama Bok,
Thanks, mind you I oftern ask for ID when I buy lotto 649.. when you mind stay young, you stay young qua.. maybe get a young lover when I am in 60th, I can stay young forever.. haha, My husband agree too, coz he wants the same... LOL..

jasmine said...

果然是个"靓师奶"哩!坦白说看了你之前的照片还以为你不过30出头,想不到.....
恭喜恭喜! 迟来的祝福: 生日快乐...永远青春!

人从经历中成长,经过岁月的洗礼,越发变得美丽!
共勉之

May the Blogie-Talkie said...

Jasmine
謝謝妳的讚美、真的不好意思!是收不起囉!
唉!"靚" 這個形容詞用不着的‧照片看不清楚的!
謝謝大家给面子!

双喜妈妈 said...

进入不惑之年囉~~~~

1+2mom said...

Happy belated birthday!!
I thought you just 30++ only ler, last pic i saw you look young.
Wish you "青春长驻,心想事成"

May the Blogie-Talkie said...

Maria,
迟早你也會JOin the club 架!乜club?
當然是FUN Club 啦!

Slyvia,
Thanks for your nice compliment,, love to hear this kind of compliments or, make me focus to stay to keep to feel young foever..hahahha