07 June 2006

世上不止媽媽好!嫲嫲也好也偉大!

" 世上只有媽媽好也該有另一个版本吧!因为嫲嫲一樣好一樣偉大!
今日發生的事要記下留给我兒子"熙熙",佢要牢牢記住嫲嫲多偉大!

回想上个星期三發生的事,我心酸溜溜的,眼淚就流出來!

星期三上班時、我同事 Terry 說:
"May,电話"

"Hello"

"請問妳係咪May呀?"

"係呀!你係邊位?"

" 噢!我正在係Downtown陪住你 mother in law,佢帶住你仔仔,不過佢头先係电梯上跌倒、个头腫起來、佢話打於个电話可以找到你、當時佢係同你仔仔一齊跌倒架、不過你仔仔就冇事" 而我聽了後青天辟力、心都掉下來!

這 女士繼續說: "你mother in law 話佢自己冇事、可以自己行番去、不過我見佢个头咁腫,我唔俾佢走、但佢又冇Health care帶係身、我唔知好唔好叫救傷車、又唔知要唔要錢? 我揸唔到主意,之後佢話你係报馆做、(MLI 唔識英文,唔知兒女的公司名同电話而我又係报馆做易記又易换D) 你可以來嗎 ? 妳仔仔係依度、佢冇事、我可以等到你來再番公司啦!"

"當然可以,你哋係边度downtown呀? 如果佢头有腫、麻煩妳即該帮我叫救傷車、我馬上到!"

抄抵地此後立即打俾老公通知佢也即刻回合我、唉!在這緊急時候、个手提电話冇哂錢!用唔到!死啦!到時我点樣通知hubby我哋位此呢?即時同事借左佢手提俾我應急!
當時我心好急好乱、眼唳湧了出來、好担心、因为跌到頭係好大件事、再加上我母親也是俾电單車(mototcycle)碰撞伤到个头、惱内部出血而去世的............

见我心慌意乱,老板娘提議載我去,加上Downtown難泊車‧ 載我去放便我‧
不 到五分钟我到了Downtown、找不到、又责怪自己沒拿对方的电話,心好急‧停下來、问Retail store 一位女子是否有見倒一个老人家跌倒又帶住一位小朋友? 對方話冇‧不过佢即刻打电話问保安. 好采保安話去另一座大夏就会见到‧我聽極都搅唔清楚边一个方向‧而保安即刻叫另一位保安帶我去‧等佢來時、我眼淚又留了,女孩看到给我一張纸巾‧
不久保安仔帶我去到‧我看到醫務人員正在帮MIL檢查、仔仔跑向我叫: "媽咪"
我抱仔仔一下、我再睇睇MIL情形、问後她,心好担心,醫務人員calm 我down,, :"don't worry, she look ok, we still checking on her"
我即刻多謝那位女士好心睇住我家人,又袒誤她上班、拿了她电話後再了解發生什么事.
"佢哋話MIL拖住个仔仔上电梯、仔仔忽然退后向上MIL身上跌、MIL一時扶唔住、跌落地上‧ "
当時我问仔仔知唔知道嫲嫲点会跌倒,冇照厄嫲嫲呢? 嫲即刻話:"细路仔嗎!唔識架,我怕嚇趁佢咋"
我安慰仔仔:"冇事,唔使怕!媽咪陪住!"

Paramedic 檢查之后、觉得只係皮外伤,佢私人意见冇需去医阮、but it's up to me to decide and they will admit my MIL with my call. 但我见MIL个伤口好腫、以仿萬一、我要帶MIL去入院檢查清清楚楚.
后來 Filling up all Medical questions,我同仔仔一起上救护车去closer medical clinic.
D醫務人員好有耐心有愛心安慰我、好多謝當時多位好心人士、用盡好意帮我哋‧所以話人间係有情、我一向冇懷疑此理、而今天更今我體会更深!

到了Medical Clinic 時, 當我等候MIL依次輪流睇医生時, 我再问MIL当時情形‧
MIL: 我哋買左野後就準備上楼去花園行吓!(Devonian garden located inside the downtown shopping Mall, build for downtown office stuffs, usually downtown have limited greenspace, so it's a relax place for Downtown people who still able to enjoy nature. ) 我拖住阿熙手上电梯、点知阿熙突然上左三板电梯退后,跌落我前身,我一下企唔懚,我快快抱住佢驚佢受伤,我们 "绿" 落幾极电梯跌倒囉!最緊要阿仔冇事,冇嚇趁!我都冇事旣!唔使担心囉!

聽到後我心好酸痛, 我MIL可以咁大犧牲保護个孫仔也不顧自己身體已紙弱又年老.... 我無言....

之後即刻講俾Paramedic聽MIL係电梯跌幾极並不是跌落地下咁簡單,可能那位女士翻譯的唔清楚、我係有责任再重複事實等醫生好好檢查清楚!

我又轉回头问仔仔為什么佢向後退呢?知唔知道嫲嫲抱住佢保護佢而跌倒头呢?而仔仔沒出聲、我知道我仔仔避开講這过程,重係好混亂那一殺那的事情發生、我也唔再提而抱住佢!我同MIL講:" 其實仔仔跌吓唔係大问题,係老人家要锡住自己,萬一跌伤好長手尾架!"
MIL: "冇啦!最緊要细旣無事無嚇到、我冇事、其實我哋周不時嘟來依度,上落电梯嘟惯旣,细路仔唔知旣、突發發生、我唔想仔仔有事、你唔好再问佢囉!"

看到MIL坐在椅子上「撐下去」時不時按按頭又按肩膀、這一刻,我好沉重我強忍眼淚.........
我家婆不止為我這个家付出很多,他不收我们的钱、他說他有老人金,用不多,每每我上班的两天帮我照厄大的和小的,有時头昏身弱都不说出、怕我上不了班、又為我们準備晚餐、老火湯、年年我生日一定封一封大利是俾我,對我有如女兒一樣!
而今天他為仔仔而不厄一切、用自己的弱體也要保護仔仔,無私奉獻,這種嫲嫲的愛甚至偉大吧!

媽媽同嫲嫲也有同一樣的共同點,所以世上不止媽媽好,嫲嫲的愛一樣好,一樣咁偉大!

仔仔,嫲嫲的愛你要緊記!而對你毫無保留付出的愛, 關心及教導, 千萬要記得!好好珍惜!好好孝顺你旣嫲嫲!

我就只有無言感激!多謝!
(MIL was seen by doctor, with no major injury, no head injury. She was discharge to go home, making sure to monitor her for next few days for any symptoms. )

7 comments:

Zara's Mama said...

Your mother in law really really 偉大.

Thank goodness her fall wasn't very serious.

It's so amazing she cares and love for you and your family so much. I wish I can say the same for my MIL.

Twinsmom said...

even though I already read it at the preview edition, but still touch so much to read again, this is a post I will read again and again to remind myself -- to respect what our eldest did for us, since we were young, till now taking care of our kids.

1+2mom said...

So touching and yes those grandmother are so great!!! My MIL also, she cares us and my children too. Event she sick, she still cook for us.

Jesslyn said...

wah, very heart attack moment hor! You have good MIL, lucky u!
Me too afraid anything happen to my MIL, as she too take good care of my girls! Let's pray they hv good health!

烦妈妈 said...

真感动。。。哇,哇,哇。。。
还好both Brayden and your MIL没事。

Thanks to every granmas in the world.

Greenapple said...

a story that is good enough for the 'chicken soup' series ... really a good one.

thanks for sharing. may your MIL have a speedy recovery ...

Earthtone said...

Oh, sorry to hear about you MIL...! Good thing she is ok.

so touching she looks out for zai zai..*sob* you have such a wonderful MIL