現今做父母甚艱難！Today parent

Bird watchingMy boy loves watching birds, influenced by his 11 years old cousin's Courtney, ever since, he loves borrow Birds book from the library to be able to identify birds in Canada, so far he surprise me how much he know about the name of many birds we watch in the park, we bought one book for him so he can keep it !仔仔受了佢Courtney表姐影響喜歡看鳥，人仔細細，也沒學識看字就向Library借關於鳥的書睇！但是咪睇佢小、每次見到鳥係附近、他可以打開書的 其中一頁來確認那一隻/一堆鳥㗎！都好準㗎(有時係表砠同佢睇過D書同講過哦)！不過也難的佢可以記得唔同烏類的特精，而有D鳥常見或已見過一次就會記得 D名可以立刻講出末添！唔錯！好安慰！

好過好似今日佢同D過份活躍D同学仔玩時，好似被人欺負。初時玩的好好、後來這三個小精靈朋友仔追迫佢，又拔D草同 拿石仔向仔仔掉，阿仔見到三個迫攻，阿仔開始逃避，但D小精靈朋友仔唔罷休紕續推佢，我見如此，点可以唔理咧? 佢太斯文了，大soft lar！ 我知我知道我要阿仔自已學防護、建立獨立，但見到時我又唔放心睇唔過眼，我走過去叫佢哋play nice，唔好 pick on 佢，佢哋才慢慢stop了。而阿仔就唔出声好似好 timid好尷尬，之後我說時间到了佢就跟我走。
當我問佢發生什么事，有事要同大人講或同D朋友仔講play nice or don't play and 学吓防身之術, 但佢又唔钟意我干涉佢的同学仔的嘢！唔多出聲，只係話ok好尷尬，我應該點去coach 我仔呢???
我担心如果我見唔到咧？佢咪好惨！我同daddy講番事情的經過，想到也會有心臟病！現今做父母甚艱難！

所 以今日佢daddy同我帶佢去park看鳥舒緩吓放鬆吓，多謝佢旣細表姐Courtney的教導 (而Courtney也只係十一歲) 佢有這看鳥 healthy hobby，再加上佢有我二姐佢旣Two姨媽常陪佢玩補番啦！) yeee?? 係咪應該係我要放鬆吓咧??
Today parent is facing a lot of challenge bringing up a child, I am facing some challenges now.
My son being pick on at school park, two to three over active kids pick on him, throw tiny rock and green grass on him saying pretend he is a little monster, they want to hunt him down, my boy got scare and didn't know how to stop them, I step in a asked the kids to play nice, (but my boy is timid or uncertain when I step in and help out, probably look too protective or embarrasses?) and I am very upsad, I teached him to talk to them to play nice, playing rough may get hurt, come to mommy when this situation happen. My boy is too easy and soft, so hard for me to watch my baby is facing the real world...... How should I help him learn ??Created a video clip on my boy ........ so easy to do, try it out!

Make video montages at www.OneTrueMedia.com

Kids summer photos contest result

Thanks to family and friends who voted my pictures on my request * Photoshop-Kids summer photos contest, here are the winners. I didn't win, but I win your votes. Apparently it's the networking that matter most. I will try again. Big Thank you!

結婚十一年周年

十一年前的今天(九月二十八日)至現在的今天一共是四千零十五天，也等於十一年的時間，這數字是代表我們的結婚已到達十一年之長，我們的結婚十一年周年就在今天!
We sometime celebrate our long lasting love in any day, we are blessed that we are healthy and so far are happily marriage (not when we fight lar, or I can't get my way lor!) The most blessing and to celebrate is our beloved son. But today is a very special day to remember, and to celebrate because it is our 11th wedding anniversary, and still counting!

Happy Moon Festival 中秋節

祝大家中秋節快樂!
前两天進入了秋季，而今天是中国人的佳節-中秋節，身在加国的我也來應節吓。從我吃飯廳的窗望出外、嘩!月光真係好光呀!未有被雲遮蓋之前，我快D 開一個月餅點蠟燭、Snap Snap Snap...再許個願.. 也讓遠方的家人同朋友們都一起來賞月吧!

Happy Moon Festival, I make a wish when looking outside my window, I hope the Moon will pass my messages to God..........

Photo Friday

PhotoFriday - theme for this week--------- The Beach

魅力凝聚新時代

Tonight,,,, I am going to watch their show,,,,,,,,,, thanks to CM for 2 free tickets, Lately I am so busy with boy started school, running all the time. Now it's time just for me and my friend's Irene, enjoy my time off, dress up and party,,,,,yahoooooooooooooo! Thanks to sister to babysit my boy,, Ooii don't drive him nuts arr, you both go crazy when together..

魅力凝聚新時代

四位多才多藝、形象百變的電視紅人鄧萃雯、馬德鐘、曹永廉(原本是謝天華)、陳敏之專程蒞臨溫哥華、卡加利 and Toronto與擁躉會面。多謝小妹俾飛睇戲，有助我依嗰fulltime師奶出吓去娛樂扮靚睇show....... 因為自從仔仔番學後、時间吾見洗!早睡早起啦，由朝忙到黑、都唔知D時間會過得咁快!

I entered boy-boy picture to futureshop photo contest, send out to friends and family to vote for me, shame on me, ha? But it's not just the skills that count, it's the networking count most, that's why there's no rule about the voting system, it mean the contest is open to whom have most networking qua??? Heheheeeeeeee, I wish I wish I wish I win, coz I am unemployed and poor,,, if not I try next time lor.......加油！Today is the dead line, and I sent out the request last night, chance is slim but quite motivated with total 20 (combine with 2 pictures votes) from unknown voter lor,,,,
Got this from email,,,,,, QUEEN OF THE BLOND so 貼切

Back on track......最新的情況

Hello there..
Let me say............ I am back to my blogspot.......
I will be spending lots of time with my family, my kitchen, housework and hobbies..just because I am off work for good, lots of time...
I say to myself life is matter of CHOICE, let make a choice! The Part-time Work just ended last week.
I believe sometime things happened for a reasons, perhaps it is time for change. So, I go with the flow, I am looking forward for a change....
Mean time, my focus is my Boy, this little fellow will start Kindergarten on this Thursday (New school year start this week). Yahoo,, first day at school, we are exited and looking forward...

For now, let me share what I've being doing..... My new experiment's----> Crêpe
I love Crepe, and it's very expensive to eat out, so I tried to make it myself, after a few experiment, no sweat, I did it! Although I don't have all the equipment, hey, nothing will stop me going when I am in mood with food..... the result is close to perfect..Mangoes pudding is another experiment in my kitchen. I thought I never like pudding until My friend's Terry brought a cup for me, and I quite like it, plus my sisters love mangoes pudding, so I got recipe from her and tried out myself, after a few trial and modification, YES! another successes.............Lavender.
this Lavender was cut out from my garden.
After visited Vancouver, I see Lavenders almost every way, it's so beautiful and smell good too, so I came home and planted some in my garden. They are more flowers in the garden, will post up later.

update

I am Home now, I am back to Calgary, back to my own bed, my kitchen, my garden and my regular routine for weeks now..

After weeks of outside of home and on the road (vacation itinerary), eating outside food, staying in motel sleeping strange bed,,,, I missed my own so much (even bringing my own pillow along still no help).

Now everything back to normal, yet I kind of missed the no work, no schedules and wake up every morning just taking the time kind of lifestyle. (aii,, who doesn't!)

The worse things is now I am making a very critical decision,, about my WORK! I am pushed to the wall! my patient is running out..

Sorry I have not reply any of your comments, firstly is because hubby reconfigure the computer and secondly the work is really bother me, I am taking a short break here, until things settle, I will be back.

ChuiPin , got your email,, thanks for keeping in touch, Glad to hear from you.

Vacation in B.C

hey, I am in Vancouver now, spending my vacations with my dear, my boy and my sister in law's Miranda family. We rented a van for 9 days, just fit for 2 family. Drove 10 hours from Calgary to Vancouver.
We've been to Tofino, Vancouver Island for 4 days (went on the ferries then drove 5 hours and reach the Cabin we rent, along the road, we stop by some attraction places), the last 4 days in Tofino, we spend time just with nature, Vancouver Island has many Provincial Park, Tofino is one of the attration areas where people come here Surf or hike and relax, we stay in Urqelet, a very small towns, not a shopping town, but if you like nature and explore the park, this will be a place. Mr. BT were our Itinerary planner, thanks to him who take so much time to search the places and let BB and the cousins appreciate the beauty of nature.
We only been to 3 hiking trails (there are so many trails), and we saw all kind of plants, huge trees, birds, deers, and a Black Bear eating berries on the road (we were in the car looking at the bear, this animal can be harmful). We also went on the beaches, collect shells and walk along the coast (the water is quite cold to swim, but boy love it), and near the beach we saw Star fishes, hermit crabs, clams and many many more.
Now we are back to Vancouver city near my brother's house. When in Vancity, we spending most time, Eat, Drink and Shop.

A special Birthday wish to >>>

真不該！今天我竟然忘了老公大壽，早上他還弄好早餐叫我吃哩！
我還生气说阿仔吵了一晚上，睡不够，不吃了! 繼續去睡。
起來時，好脾氣的他還叫我吃雞蛋早餐，之後喃喃自語說煮早餐给兒子吃，问他今天是什麼日子，他說來說去都不是，叫daddy自已說...!我才醒過來....唉呀! "仔！今日係Daddy生日呀!"
立刻弄了新創生辰蛋賀大人‧好彩两個星期前早買了一張卡 (I know I may forget lor,, and I did!)，寫好放在一邊早有準備..趕快送上..扮早有準備咁！
老公，莫見怪！(已慣了) 仔仔同老婆一向也蒙吓蒙吓！糸咪好可愛！
哪！隻蛋加tuna美味魚，有創意呱! 祝你生日好快樂！事事順利！幸福一萬年(因有我同仔仔嗎！)Happy Birthday to Hubby,, sorry, we almost forgotten your birthday, thanks for the hints this morning, we love the breakfast you served and in returns, I've make you a special Birthday treat (due to time limit, I think outside the BOX, I make you an eggs tuna treats to wish you A happy Happy Birthday........ Come on! i'ts the thought that count mar..)

In the Evening, we went to Shikiji Japanese Restaurant for Dinner,,

it was a good dinner with a reasonable price..Overall Satisfied! Life is good with ..............Food!OK OK,, Gain so many pounds lately,, Start my Food Diet Now! Serious?

少量的花展

這個小小妁花展獻给遠方的一些朋友，對！像你／妳們這些訪客。歡迎到臨！To you all
Especially dedicated to Chui Pin, I believe you and your family moved back to Sabah from Japan months ago,, Wish you, hubby, FanFan, and another new member healthy and happiness alwaysAll these flowers pictures were taken in Vancouver in June, in my brother's neighbourhood .
Flower grow easily in Vancity, rain a lots and temperature is warm and damn, but then over there not as Sunny as in Calgary.
Calgary 雖是比較冷但是長年都有陽光尤其冬天一樣是陽光普照，被列為陽光之都，不過以溫哥華比較、Calgary的植物並不像那邊的長的多長的快，而且花種不多。
All kind of flowers and trees grow beautifully there, no wonder Vancity is one of the top city to live .

update

Hallooooooooo For quite sometime I have not been active in blogs world, just being lazy..I still hop around to some favourites blogs site from day to day.
Have some update here To say hallooooo to you all here.

Summer is here, spending most time outdoor and watching HongKong TVB series.

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Howdy...folks..

Calgary Stampede, Hee-Ha

The World larges 10 days outdoor event just ended last Sunday in Calgary.
We spent whole 12 hours in there on day 3 (family day, free admission until 9am), we still not able to finished watching or browse the whole place. Many things we miss out.

Boy had so much fun partly because he got many soft toys from playing games. He first thought he won it, but we explained to him, we the parent bought the tickets and actually we paid for it, there aren't free toy here, as matter of fact, those toy look petty bad, honestly I would rather buy nice one in ToyRus with the money we spent on those games, but is the fun that count lar..(sakit hati man, total 60 dollars on games and ride..)
Other than this, we watch the Superdog show, play at Kids Place, we also went to one of the exhibitions place (agricultural exhibition), a lot of things to see and learn here, I told boy this is a better place to be where so much see learn thru play, and some free goodies too, a healthy place to be ! ( especially for us the parent,fill with tons of fun with money spend less )

Really, it was so much to explore.. check out the photo below, where boy learn to milk.. cute yar!

Because I work for the Media, I get in free everyday, but I only spend 1 day inside the ground :( still have so much to see.. wait for Next year.

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Forgotten my dear sister's birthdays this month,
Sister's Ping in Seremban Birthday last Friday 13th. Happy Belated Birthday push-plush cutie from--> indeepop
Tana's Birthday on the 16th and
My other half-- husband birthday is on the 22nd..

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July 1st is Canada Birthday Celebration!

Happy Canada Day!